Massaging a woman’s G-spot spurs her on to greater sexual excitement!

The female G-spot is that legendary spot inside a woman that, if correctly stimulated, will propel her to levels of new sexual ecstasy.

BUT does it exist and if so where is its location?

It's simply an area of increased sensitivity that many women like to have stimulated.

The G-spot only becomes apparent as it engorges during stimulation.

Perhaps the G-spot and its "secret" location has been over hyped in today's "must have it now" society, yet it is a great way to stimulate and pleasure a woman. All women will have a female G spot location but not all notice when it is being stimulated. A few may dislike the sensation.

If you cannot find your female partners G-spot, or that of your own don't be alarmed, just remember everyone is different.

You'll find that women's G-spots are generally located along the upper front wall of the vagina, towards the stomach. Finding it will involve some manual exploration.

With practice you will learn the timing and once you have mastered this you are ready to share your skills in becoming a multi-orgasmic man with your romantic partner which can be a wonderful opportunity for you to significantly increase the pleasure you both receive during lovemaking.

For best results the woman is to lie down on her back with her knees bent and have her place her feet in front of you at a slightly higher angle (this is the best position to "hit" the female G spot). Insert a middle finger into her vagina and stroke the front wall behind the pubic bone - around 2 inches up.

It's likely you will feel an area of skin that is different in texture from the rest of her vaginal walls. This area is slighty rough. Start by using some "come here" motions, pressing into this ruffled patch until you find an area that is sensitive to pressure. This is the woman's urethral sponge aka the female G-spot!

About the size of a pea, it can enlarge to the size of a walnut when simulated. When this area is stimulated many women feel like they have to urinate due to the G-spot enlarging and pressing on the nerves that signal a full bladder.

Most women find that as stimulation is continued, this feeling goes away and is replaced with very pleasurable sensations. The G-spot is not a "press me" button to get you or your female partner off quickly. Instead it must be gently stimulated for the best explosive effects.

• You should both be relaxed. The objective of this mission is FUN, not goal oriented.
• Use a quality lubricant.
• You should masturbate her in your usual way until she feels aroused.
• Insert one or two fingers into her vagina, crooking them up towards the belly (12 o'clock position if she is lying on her back)
• Press firmly against the roof of the vagina about 2 inches in.
• You should feel a small slightly rough lump that increases in size with continued stimulation.
• You should start slowly, gently inserting your fingers whilst using soft, gentle motions at first. When you feel the G-spot area becoming enlarged more pressure should be applied.
• Keep paying attention to other parts of her body: her breasts, her clitoris ... whatever turns her on best.
• As her body begins to respond positively and she starts feeling pleasure, begin to use more pressure and more rapid motions.
• As the G-spot stimulation continues she may feel her vagina clench and bear down, the signal that orgasm is imminent. Start to apply more pressure to the urethral sponge, stroking and manipulating the area around the urethral opening.
• She may feel the urge to urinate. She shouldn't fight it! She may be getting ready to ejaculate. She should relax, trust her body and yourself, and see what happens.

Stimulating the G-spot should come at the middle and end of your sexual play when you have reached a heightened state of arousal.

If your body is producing natural lubrication then that's great however it can often run dry at an inopportune moment so a quality lubricant is recommended to keep things going.

That's all there is to it – remember to experiment and see what feels good to you – the resultant orgasms will be far more pleasurable and intense.

Bibliography

Masters and Johnson
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